Alternative Sides

This is the next iteration of our Alternative Sides blog that started in 2001 then we went to hiatus for about 3 yrs while we went back to school for our graduate and post graduate degrees.

Now we're back and ready to pursue regular discussions about gay couple's love, life, and drama.

Our expertise? Professionally, we have more than 40 years between us in the field of training, coaching, counseling, sales and management. Personally, we've been together for 16 yrs and have lived in three major gay mecca's of the world - Diamond Heights (right above Castro) in San Francisco, Hell's Kitchen (right next to Times Square and a subway ride to Greenwich) in New York City and now in the Village in Toronto, Ontario Canada - thereby experiencing what its like to be in a large gay metropolis.

Why Canada? We got married!

Finally after all these years, it was time to put on paper this partnership - no more he's my boyfriend, he's my partner.... its what is supposed to be - he's my husband!! Very cool eh? It's a wonderful feeling but like we've always said, relationships are a daily activity - you have to keep working at it. Much like learning is a lifelong process, so is a relationship.... let us give you tips and hints, in between and outside the sheets.... Send us your questions today!